How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is visiting holy shrines (dargahs) or graves haraam in Islam?

That's it for today.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What do you think hell is like?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can relationship issues cause depression?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Democrat voters, why are you so naive, easy to manipulate, can't see a liar standing right in front of you and why won't you research your party? You will find they have a plan for all W. Nations and it's evil.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do people keep complaining about how some people copy and paste the question before answering it? To me, it's very disturbing and makes me want to block and mute them as annoying whiners.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.